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What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?

08.06.2025 16:36

What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?

11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?

Take the short quiz here @ Discover Your Love Language® - The 5 Love Languages®

A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…

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6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?

84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?

22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?

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Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan

44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?

Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?

Which race of women are the hottest?

88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?

How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me

If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)

What are some hard truths that MAGA needs to hear?

Please share Did you stop?

I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?

Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced

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24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?

Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand

46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?

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91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?

22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?

67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?

Why cant I stop thinking about counsellor between sessions?

If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.

78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?

15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?

How does one succeed in life?

41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?

Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?

3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?

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Nothing too Serious

Do you think this brought you closer together?

14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?

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51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?

43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?

31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?

50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?

7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?

35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?

60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?

2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?

Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?

39~ What are your love languages?

14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?

9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?

How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?

58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?

Do you watch it? What is your favorite?

13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?

20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?

11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?

36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?

53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?

11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?

77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?

24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)

42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?

41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.

23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?

4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?

72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?

Master/Slave Boss/Maid

40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?

8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?

Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts

*** Random Questions ***

*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***

30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?

40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?

56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?

80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊

13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?

10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.

10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?

19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?

1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?

21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?

Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?

69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?

What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?

Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?

63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?

Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?

Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?

25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?

What was the longest? What was the shortest?

1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?

20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?

61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?

85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?

25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)

54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)

If yes, what?

85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,

71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?

5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?

39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?

Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant

* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?

12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?

27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.

Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…

Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?

1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?

9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?

Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?

7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?

38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?

28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?

These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…

What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.

34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?

Does the thought excite you? Care to share?

73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?

65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?

57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?

75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?

87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?

66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?

44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?

29- How superstitious are you?

51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?

7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?

Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?

92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?

64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?

7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?

9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?

What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?

8- What are your thoughts on politics?

*** Deal Breaker Questions ***

33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?

15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?

What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?

14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?

59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?

26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?

36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?

3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?

89~ Do you like taking showers together?

2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?

1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?

16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?

*** Questions About Me ***

37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?

45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)

15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?

If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?

93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…

If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?

48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?

9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?

19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?

6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?

Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?

Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager

12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?

53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?

What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?

45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?

1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)

3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)

33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?

6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?

5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?

* Give a rating for each one (0-100)

13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?

Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…

The Ice Breaker Questions

How old are you? Male or Female?

Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client

14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?

30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?

9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?

You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.

38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?

17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?

11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?

42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?

21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?

31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)

50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?

79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?

(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?

Have you ever? Care to Share?

52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?

What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?

4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)

7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?

Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…

Any that are a turn off?

13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?

28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?

12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?

23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)

17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?

32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?

74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?

5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?

6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?

18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?

3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?

If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?

27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?

That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!

5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?

Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?

Family Relation Age Play

62~ Have you used adult toys?

How many times do you think you have “made love”?

5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?

2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.

16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?

34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?

2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?

Any that are a turn off?

20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?

29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?

92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?

26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?

What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/

What is your favorite position? Why?

21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?

47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)

Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?

Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?

83~ How do you feel about Porn?

Would you read them together?

19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?

43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?

37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?

Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?

52~ What are your hobbies?

10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?

If you win, what will you make them do?

3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?

49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?

4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)

70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?

46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?

*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***

Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?

11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?

82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?

18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?

49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?

How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?

48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?

17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?

81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?

Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?

47~ What would be your dream job and why?

Model/Photographer Police/Criminal

22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?

Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?

Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?

How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)

How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?

Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?

32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?

33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?

68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?

18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?

35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?

55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?

Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.

8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?

4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?

8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.

90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?

14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?

76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?